I read your emails, and I get it: you don’t give a shit. When someone starts off saying they’re emailing me again, it’s like I feel bad for ignoring them and thus I pay more attention to them.So what if hot chicks get deluged with awfully mean and awfully written emails – they’re hot chicks. I was a little surprised at your ruthlessness, but hey, I’m a hot chick. (I’m working on a catchphrase here.) This week’s lesson from Olivia is far more practical. When you get a lot of emails, it’s very easy for most of them to just get lost and drowned out, even ones that I liked. I TOULD YOU about the power of the second email months ago, and I’m happy to see Olivia agrees.Community Q&A The best thing about online dating is the fact that people who join these sites are typically looking for someone who shares mutual interests, goals, desires, etc.People are looking for compatibility, and not for a one night fling - like you find at a bar (again, this is typically the case, not always). The Arch Deluxe was nothing short of a marketing disaster. To take a stroll down memory lane, the Arch Deluxe was Mc Donald's marketing attempt at bringing in a more refined crowd with a more "refined hamburger." Well you can dress a pig in lipstick, but at the end of the day, a pig is still a pig.
In fact, just today it was reposted on the Huffington Post! In fact, I probably respond to more second emails than first emails.
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I asked her one question, and the response I received was pure gold. When you’ve got a bunch of emails to choose from, it’s pretty hard to select one that, in the one moment it has to advertise, offers only the word “(none)”. So, generally I’ll go back and find their original message, reread their new message, look at their profile, and decide whether to respond. I actually think it’s not a bad idea to send two emails to everyone you write, if you feel like spending that sort of time on Internet dating, and don’t mind veering dangerous close to serial killer zone.
You may think this applies only to men looking for women, or folks trying to attract someone a bit out of their league – but that isn’t so. Most captivating subject line in that assortment goes to…the guy who wrote “86”, I guess? I’ve just gone from spending 10-30 seconds on your email and probably not even looking at your profile to a few minutes thinking about you. But you gotta handle the second email just right (for suggestions, follow the link). A third email is a little too Bates Motel for Olivia’s tastes.