If he doesn’t pick it up and run with it, then I would say forget about it.
It’s worth trying and if it doesn’t come together, you’ll know that you tried and you can move on.
I don’t mean to ignore him because I do like him but I’m scared I might be bugging him. I think that if you had a long conversation and connected then it means that there’s potential for you to connect further. sometimes you have to put yourself out there and risk possibly being annoying or intruding.
Now, he really doesn’t text me as much as he used to (he always responds if I text him though). Sometimes you have to risk making a mistake or being rejected…
Places frequented by tourists in Medellin are more saturated with foreigners than before.
My feeling is that you should talk with him if you like talking with him – if you’re doing something he doesn’t like, he will let you know one way or another.
You’re done with the bar scene and you’re very much interested in settling down to have a family of your own. Well, if you’re born in 1971, you’re part of Generation X. Your friends are buying their first houses and having their first kids. Maybe he’ll still be vigorous enough to keep up with your active lifestyle. Next, since you can’t convince someone to date an older man, stop trying.
And then you, the 36-year-old woman, post your profile, and what happens? It doesn’t stop older men from writing, but at least you don’t have to explain yourself to a man who doesn’t want to hear your perfectly valid explanation. But you must understand that any woman you desire online has choices. She can go out with a cute, successful man who is 35. To find out who IS interested, try Match.com’s Reverse Match.
You get BOMBARDED by emails from fifty and sixty something Baby Boomers looking to trade up in the world. Yet these men keep on writing – talking about how they’re young for their age, how they’d love to have children, how they have everything in life except a good younger woman. Understand, Dale, there is nothing wrong with you being attracted to a fertile and youthful woman in her 30’s. Instead of searching through hundreds of thirtysomething women who wouldn’t give you a second look, Reverse Match shows you who IS open to dating a 56-year-old man.
You double check your profile to see if there’s something you wrote that’s attracting these older men. If you’re 36, you’re pretty darned confused by these emails. By the time the kid is in high school, Dad will be 74! There’ll be fewer numbers, but at least you won’t be wasting your time. There are a lot of amazing ones out there and they are criminally underappreciated.