In my experience, friends appreciate hearing directly from friends rather than learning sensitive information from others.If she is not a close friend then you do not need to discuss your dating plans with her. Third, how upset is your friend about the break-up? she would constantly tell me how much she wanted to date me AND I LITERALLY HAVE THE SKYPE CONVERSATIONS? My abuser has literally done nothing but ABUSE and MANIPULATE me for short time we were friends. They are shitty and horrible human beings for defending a fucking abuser.
” Sign up for our NEW ONLINE COURSE: The Rules for Everyone!You also do not need to talk about her ex around her regardless of how close you are or aren't. If you have a close friend who is reeling from a break-up then you absolutely need to speak to her and talk to her about her feelings about you possibly dating her ex.If you have made a definite decision to date him then let her know that and reassure her that you will date him but will be low key about it You may also want to find out what went wrong.I don’t say this to judge or to blame, but I think it is important to be clear about what has been happening.She will very likely be devastated and feel betrayed by her best friend and by the man she thought she had a lasting future with.