This is not a takedown of online dating or people using online dating, since I am one such person.
This is an attempt to explain why otherwise successful men have difficulty meeting women online.
Even basic eye contact is not possible through a computer. They crave the attention of men, even those they’d label the C word. What happens next to the men on these sites is a lowering of standards. These women have their self-worth filled as well as their inboxes.
Whether you are creating an internet dating profile to find marriage or just someone to spend some time with, you have to be able to grow and nurture your relationship.
Luckily, the ones most affected by this are the women you’d likely avoid anyways. Confidence is very difficult to express with a photo or a description.
The best profiles show humour and cockiness; true confidence is elusive.
Con: There are a lot of accounts that have been abandoned as people found success.
Pro: Many successful relationships have started online – many more than there has ever been before.