When I did he looked me in the eye and said he would never, ever do that to me. And if you don’t tell him, you set him up to lie even further. Because when it comes right down to it, he’s the one who breached the trust of the relationship. Sure, it’s clear he loves you, but that doesn’t mean he’s a great boyfriend, and someone to throw your lot in with.
He should be apologizing to you, asking for forgiveness, and agreeing to go to couples’ counseling, or whatever else it takes to restore the trust. Any guy trolling a dating site while he’s in a relationship is cheating, plain and simple. ” To which we’d respond, “But only because the opportunity didn’t present itself.” Kacey, ask yourself if this is the kind of person you want to build a life with? Please leave us a follow up comment and/or question here in the comments section.
“If we hadn’t met online, this would never have been an issue.As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.But when those unique dating situations suddenly become your present reality, you still feel like a deer caught in headlights no matter how many books about polyamory or open relationships you may have read.I’ve been dating a guy I met online for almost six months, but he won’t delete his online dating profile.