] Guys and that first kiss Every time a guy dates a girl, he wants to know whether he’s made a really good impression on the girl.He’d want to believe that the girl has had a wonderful time with him, and is head over heels in love with him already!A kiss may be seen as a caring gesture and not have a sexual connotation to one, while the other person may be stimulated into sexual thoughts and response just by thinking about it.The topic is one that needs to be openly discussed and mutual acceptance of a definition that works for each of them.Our actions should not cause someone else to misinterpret the Bible, find justification for wrong behavior, nor lead them to or exacerbate a problem they may already be struggling with.The difficulty comes when one person feels free to act in a certain way while another does not.
Because our daily lives have gotten so complicated — our dating lives, in particular — I think these are exactly the kinds of tips we need to hear. Laurie says: "You cannot kiss anyone until you have first established he is worth your time."How do you do that? I don’t see this woman’s reaction as a "generational thing." In fact, it almost seems contrary to what society is touting for relationships.With our grade schools handing out condoms to alleviate the problem of teen pregnancy, the “appropriateness of kissing” conversation doesn’t even show up on the relational conduct radar of young people these days.I am reminded of my definition for sex: any activity that has as its intent or develops into a sexual stimulation is sex.It does not require physical contact or even presence.