Changing Your Thoughts Creating New Opportunities Changing Your Habits Community Q&A Getting over someone you're obsessed with can be really hard.
There's no simple solution, but with a few steps, it's possible to put the past behind you and take a step into the future.
For example, the local harassment and stalking laws applicable to the country, province or state that you are in should replace the US laws listed below.
Please feel free to have your legal counsel review it for further modifications.
When a person is getting aggressive and intimidating and refuses to back down, modify and mail the Cease and Desist letter below to get them to back down.
It is key that a copy of the letter is kept along with with a record of delivery.
My ex-boyfriend had to juggle multiple roles, from therapist to cheerleader to babysitter.
The whole relationship revolved around holding me up.
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I realized this soon after it ended—that I’d spent three years expecting someone else to love me when I didn’t love myself.
The guilt and shame kept me single for almost a decade. I’d start getting close to someone and then find a way to sabotage it. But mostly I was afraid of hurting someone else again and having to live with that.
That can add a whole lot of stress to your already strained couplehood. Are you evaluating whether one of you will move, and if so, does that mean marriage?
Or are you just trying to maintain the relationship as it stands now, perhaps in a different place?