But I've learned that those romantic conventions don't work when you are trying to date a queer person.The dynamic of two men being together IS DIFFERENT.I was becoming attractive, to the point where other guys were staring and had lust in their eyes.To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth.The second you start to evaluate your date two incredible things happen.There isn’t a whole lot you can do about the fact that you’re a shy guy.As a result, straight guys often gab with us about the stuff girls do that cost them a call back.
Of course, all of this doesn’t even begin to take into account the additional level of apprehension many gay guys feel when it comes to approaching other men due to the uncertainty of parsing out a stranger’s orientation. Even though you have a whole lot of anxiety to deal with, you have to just get over it if you ever want to go on dates, get laid and find yourself the boyfriend you’ve always wanted.Queer men are varying shades of the rainbow." —Chris, 25 "I went from a 225-pound fat boy to a 145-pound athletic guy.As I lost more weight and gained muscle mass, I began to notice a change in my looks.But girls are an entirely different kind of animal.Women aren’t a simple stroll in the park; women are an uphill climb in dangerous weather conditions. Also, lesbian culture, by nature, is extremely elusive.