Carlos Xuma has a strong, unique approach to pickup.You can boil it down to a simple phrase: “The alpha man gets the girls.” Nearly everything he teaches is related to that one simple concept.He focuses on getting over your fears, being aggressive, powerful, and in control at all times.He hates the concept of the “nice guy” and gears his programs entirely towards breaking any habits you may hold which might lead to women putting you in the “nice guy” box.As made evident in my book,, the pursuer-distancer cycle(p-d) is one of the most common yet challenging relationship patterns cited in the marriage and family therapy literature.This dynamic consists of one partner pursuing while the other distances; the more the pursuing partner pursues the more the other distances, and .While not a dysfunctional dynamic in and of itself, when chronic or fixed, intimacy is avoided and relationship trouble ensues.
Do you want dating to feel easy - so you want to be more confident about yourself in terms of Love and Romance? It's Manifesting and being in Action to Attract love. Core rooted issues that maybe de-motivating to you when it comes to going out AND dating. Coaching help clients make changes they can’t make own their own.After all, the line between being alpha and being a jerk can be a fine one.But Xuma’s “Alpha Immersion” program attacks this problem head-on, focusing on developing the alpha man who is congruent with your natural personality.There will be coaching seminars to help keep your relationship healthy-active and non-stagnant.Don't get comfortable now, do everything you can do to improve your marriage.