Most of the effortless success that others seem to have is an illusion.
The thing is, now I might have a potential daywalker (shudder) which I haven't even thought about categorizing into my rules, because they are so rare. And most importantly (or not at all importantly), If I dated one, would we ever be able to go to the beach together?Putting it simply, good things happen to people sometimes just by luck alone, without much effort, but not often. Is it likely that the first house you look at will turn out to be the house of your dreams? More likely you will have to look at fifteen or twenty houses before you decide to buy one.If you look at one house every week or so, this process can take a long time. I never felt I was attracted to gingers before, but maybe it's time. Therefore, following my own rules would leave me dying alone and celibate forever. And I usually end up getting burned because they see me as some sort of fetish without a soul. I mean, that part may be true...let's just say they care more about hair (in more than one place) and skin color more than personality. Apparently lots of gingers love each other, and I found a really cute picture of a ginger couple (see previous post). I only mean that in terms of it being odd to see a picture like that, of two redheads together.