Personally, I see nothing wrong with that because we were of legal age and I was on the cusp of adulthood, but at the time some of my friends had a problem with it.They thought it was weird that I was going out with someone 4 years older.Either they aren't yet comfortable with it or they haven't been able to tap into their resources yet.As we all know, bad communication in any relationship is a recipe for disaster. The mother figure often comes into play in this kind of relationship.
But that’s not a power position, and it does you no favors. Beware of wielding stereotypes; they’re cheap shortcuts masquerading as wisdom, and if you use them, prepare to be judged by them. You would only applaud someone if she succeeded in doing something impossible or crazy, or if she got away with something she shouldn’t have. The cougar image is cartoonish at best, derived either from a culture fearful of a sexually empowered woman, or from the woman herself, who claims cougardom as a way to boost her self esteem via sex with a man many years her junior.Regardless of which type of kitty a woman may be, Barkley says any woman with the right attitude can be a cougar.“A woman who is well defined, strong, flexible, confident and goes after what she wants but can still remain a lady, is worthy of the cougar name,” Barkley said.He's lovely and a great man, very patient and considerate (we waited 3 months before having sex cos i wasn't ready until then) and it was our 8 month anniversary yesterday so the relationship its self is lovely.I just wondered what people think about the fact that i was 17 and he 21 when we began dating?