Women who sign up for online dating have an unlimited supply of men offering them dates, sex, and long term companionship.
Despite all these options, 90% of these potential suitors are ignored because they are perceived as not being good enough (too short, old, ugly, bald, poor, or socially isolated).
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When women do respond, the conversation goes nowhere (ie. Sometimes they may meet a woman for coffee however afterwards she will stop replying or tell them because she lacks interest.
She may express this lack of attraction by saying there is “no chemistry”, or she “just wants to be friends”, or that she “isn’t feeling it”, or that he is a “nice guy”, etc.
Maybe he comes off as kind of distant to people."Does it matter?
"Dear readers, have you ever dated a guy with no friends?
I've met a few girls on the internet who seem to have no friends (apart from online ones), no social life, who are basically hermits, who still have boyfriends who they seem to spend a lot of their time with.
Do they seem them as either weird/creepy/or socially inept?
Or maybe guys who are loners just tend to lack the social skills to be good at dating to start with, maybe that's more it. Girls can be super-shy and be approached all the time and still have a boyfriend. I am one because women are too catty for me, hate always having to keep my guard up around them.
In some ways, this drawn out rejection is even worse for the rejected loser male.
The problem for male loners is that their lack of friends or a social circle is a deterrent for women.