First, I'd like to suggest that you change the way you are thinking about this situation: it's different than the one you experienced with your unfaithful husband.
You are dealing with someone who has lost the companionship of long time spouse, and is probably working through the grief of that loss and the challenges of caring for her as she declines It's important to get a better understanding of all the factors involved: is your friend's wife still mentally competent? Does your friend still visit her regularly, and is she aware of his presence when he is there? How do each of your religious beliefs affect this situation?
"But I'm going to create a general profile for Jason right here, based on my experience of coexisting in the same house with him for, like, 9,490 days."She continued on to list all of her favorite things about her husband, "a dreamy, let's-go-for-it travel companion" and "an absolutely wonderful father.""He is 5-foot-10, 160 pounds, with salt-and-pepper hair and hazel eyes," Rosenthal wrote to knock out "the basics.""He is a sharp dresser.
Our young adult sons, Justin and Miles, often borrow his clothes....
He is fit and enjoys keeping in shape."Rosenthal also points out that her husband is extremely useful around the house, a much sought after trait."If our home could speak, it would add that Jason is uncannily handy.
On the subject of food — man, can he cook," she wrote.
When I originally started talking to John he told me that she had died two weeks prior.Are there children involved, and how might your relationship affect them?What I'm suggesting is that you start to think of this situation in less black and white terms, (is this right or wrong) and look into all the variables involved.He's a co-worker who is allowing me to use his profile since POF won't allow me to create one of my own today.(I've tried three times and every time I finish answering those 40 questions it wipes out my selections and takes me right back to the 40 questions!