Have you ever caught yourself saying, "I hate small talk! If your friend is an introvert, you may have noticed that they are fine when you talk one on one but seem to get lost in the crowd when there's a group around.
Introverts notoriously hate to chat about "small" subjects with people, which can hurt their chances of making new friends.
A.) Any type of small talk that seems forced or awkward is a really big turn off for women. And if a woman senses that you’re shy, nervous, or insecure around you, she is likely not going to invest in the conversation. “Interview style” small talk is when you just continually ask a woman a series of questions about her job, school, family, hometown, ect. This type of small talk is especially boring if she senses that you’re not even listening to her answers.
Because these topics tend to lead a woman into an emotional state. Don’t be afraid to call a woman out on her bullshit.
Understanding these issues, you really can’t blame for not wanting a weak, insecure, inexperienced, boring, or disheveled man who can’t keep a conversation interested. And begin using small talk to become more attractive to women. Some of these topics include music, food, childhood memories, observations about her, and traveling. If you’re talking to a woman, and you’re attracted to her in a sexual way… It will keep you out of the friend zone, and it will make the small talk much more interesting.
If you want to read more about this, read this article on the best conversation topics. This is a technique that I talk about in the Small Talk Tactics report. So, there you have 20 ways to make small talk more fun, interesting, and playful.
So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.
After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.