So, as her white, Jewish (80% of the time), totally-secure-and-normal boyfriend, you better be prepared for when your girlfriend mistakes "soup or salad" for "super salad." And since Asians have eyes like gravy boats, her crying jags are bound to extend late into the night. STEP FOUR: Locking it Down If you've made it this far, then you know all the dirty secrets of dating an Asian girl. You know we pretend to love drinking, even though we turn into full-blown red-faced injuns when we do. (According to my mom, the tradition stems from the groom's family giving the bride's family a cow in exchange for her.) So, if you're going to marry an Asian, get ready to empty your pockets. Of course, because of this, my parents want me to marry a Chinese guy and my brother to marry a white girl.
Okay, so let us pretend for a moment you meet an Asian woman or man - and you are white and born/raised in Canada.
This happens quite often amongst young people living in Canada's multicultural cities, but many of these relationships end because they feel they are "too different" and ignores the possibility that these two people might be perfect together, but their cultures won't let them.
So I’m only going to write from my point of view — a 28-year-old Chinese Canadian (yeah, that’s right, I’m not even from your country), living and dating in NYC.Some of the behavior I have encountered has been so distasteful that I’ve been shocked as it was happening. But if you want to seem on top of things on a date with an Asian girl, please avoid doing these things.I assumed we would all know better by now than to draw outrageous stereotypes or make racist statements, but I’ve been proven wrong many times. I’ve been bowed to on a date and people have commented on the flatness of my face. You probably know by now that having an Asian girlfriend is a rite of passage for all white men.