She had to witness Sting’s journey battling substance abuse.
Sue also had to take care of their two boys the whole time.
She would hope that if she gave me enough sexual pleasure, I would realize that she was the girl for me.
Sting said he didn’t need to, but after thirty days he realized he couldn’t stop.Now, I’m not saying these are conscious reasons why dating a man quite a bit older—there have been several moments when I’ve thought that going out with someone closer to my age would be much simpler.I even tried it when my boyfriend and I took a short break, and I found it was painstakingly difficult and more complicated than my experience dating an older guy. The texting games (How long should I wait to text him back? It’s exhausting), the fear of commitment that plagues most twentysomethings, and the simple fact that most guys my age aren’t as emotionally mature as I am.That’s when he Sting became a born-again and confessed to Sue that he’d had a bunch of affairs and was basically a huge mess.Sue said “he was just a 180-degree, completely different man from that moment of confessing to me the life that he had led…”Then Sting’s ex-wife Sue eventually became a hardcore religious lady.