One of the biggest excuses as to why guys don’t want to be in a relationship has to be that they’re scared of commitment.
In fact, the fear of commitment and relationships is becoming so common, a lot of people don’t even believe it anymore.
I’ve been helping women over 40 find passionate, grownup love for 8 years.
When these fabulous women come to me for support, most admit that they are scared of dating. These strong, magnificent women have been through a horrible experience, yet they have far less hesitation about putting themselves out there.
But when I first met him, he was scared of commitment.
His last few relationships had been bad and he was afraid to open up again in a new one.
That doesn’t mean they aren’t scared as crap to be “on the market” again.We always say we humans are innately fearful of loneliness.We stay in bad relationships, relationships that bore us to tears, abusive relationships and unfulfilling relationships because we're so petrified of the alternative: being single.Here’s what I think: these amazing women know the reward of having a loving, devoted man in their life.They miss having a warm, rich, intimate partnership. You see, these women are not scared of dating, because they know the reward of having a partner in life.