With those basics in mind, here are the five seemingly harmless mistakes most men make during the ugly process.
One thing said while you’re married, is completely different when you’re getting divorced.
To outside observers, his serial monogamy might appear as a committed relationship, after all he’s dating exclusively.
The problem with serial monogamy and mini-marriages is that he gets his physical, social, and emotional needs met but he’s still unclear about the future of the relationship; he still doesn’t know what he ultimately wants.
The search is a kind of journey, and along the way you tend to learn a few things about yourself, and about the society we live in. Everyone knows lots of fabulous single women in their 40s …but can’t think of any equally fabulous single men the same age.
We’ve all jumped into a new relationship before we were ready and most of us, at some point or another, have been someone else’s rebound relationship.Because I plan to be serially monogamous indefinitely, I need to figure this out now.How do I try out a new relationship while gently easing out of my old one, without crossing cheating boundaries and maligning my good name?So we figured out – and accepted – that the right man does not magically appear when you’re ready for him.You have to work hard to find someone you really want and really like – or, as one married male friend put it, “someone normal” (apparently normal men are in short supply).